This blog is mainly for my gorgeous girls Isabelle and Amelie. It is an online scrapbook. Just a fraction of all the little things piling up in mummy's little head, while they are busy growing up. But, whoever you are, you are all welcome to read. I will be happy to share.I often write in Turkish though. Hoping that one day they'll be able to read in Turkish!
Wednesday, 15 July 2015
KPIs in life Vol.1
Just received a letter from the Chartered Institute of Marketing congratulating me for completing the first year of my Chartered Marketer Programme. It's titled; Evidence Of Improvement. Suddenly I am feeling positive about myself. Since this is such a rare occasion, I would like to document it for future reference!
Here you go, I am thinking about my KPIs in life.
1- Are my kids healthy, happy, loved and cared for? ✔
2- Is my husband healthy, happy, loved and cared for? ✔
3- Is my house in a reasonable state? Hygenic, tidy, functionable etc? ✔ Well half a tick perhaps as it is crying for some improvement.
4- Am I trying to provide and promote a healthy lifestyle for myself and my family? ✔
5- Am I keeping up to date with what's been going on around the world and trying to make a difference e.g. volunteering, donating, taking part in campaigns? ✔
6- Am I taking care of my body? Physically maintaining and improving my health? ✔
7- Am I stimulating my brain? Reading, writing, thinking? ✔
8- Am I constantly developing new professional skills and knowledge? ✔
9- Have I got a job, where I would be able to utilize these professional skills and knowledge, share, learn, get the satisfaction from being useful, achieving goals etc? NO
10- Have I got friends who care about me and what I think, listen to me, ask my opinion, ask for help or help me out, to have fun with ? ✔
To be continued...
4- Am I trying to provide and promote a healthy lifestyle for myself and my family? ✔
5- Am I keeping up to date with what's been going on around the world and trying to make a difference e.g. volunteering, donating, taking part in campaigns? ✔
6- Am I taking care of my body? Physically maintaining and improving my health? ✔
7- Am I stimulating my brain? Reading, writing, thinking? ✔
8- Am I constantly developing new professional skills and knowledge? ✔
9- Have I got a job, where I would be able to utilize these professional skills and knowledge, share, learn, get the satisfaction from being useful, achieving goals etc? NO
10- Have I got friends who care about me and what I think, listen to me, ask my opinion, ask for help or help me out, to have fun with ? ✔
To be continued...
quick update
So, I finally quit my hideous job a couple of weeks ago. Well technically, I didn't want to quit, just told them I wasn't happy, suggested a few things to improve my happiness and they said no unsurprisingly. Because clearly they don't give a sh.t.
Not sure what to do next and the fact that school holiday is almost here makes me think: hmm 7 weeks of school holiday. Do I really want to search for another job in this period of time? What if I got a job then how are we possibly going to sort out childcare for 7 weeks when every single childminder and holiday club has already been booked. So now have done the school run, Amelie is at nursery today and I have all day to myself. Hoorrayyy!:)
Not sure what to do next and the fact that school holiday is almost here makes me think: hmm 7 weeks of school holiday. Do I really want to search for another job in this period of time? What if I got a job then how are we possibly going to sort out childcare for 7 weeks when every single childminder and holiday club has already been booked. So now have done the school run, Amelie is at nursery today and I have all day to myself. Hoorrayyy!:)
Thursday, 14 May 2015
Saturday, 2 May 2015
Thursday, 30 April 2015
Birthday No. 6
Once again, I have spent months trying to find the best presents, planning the best party and making the best birthday cake. I am knackered. But it's all worth it. My baby girl is 6. She loved her cake and her presents and they all had a great time screaming and dancing and running around...
By the way, turns out 6 year olds don't dance to nursery rhymes any more...they like pop music apparently! Isabelle's favourite songs now are Uptown Funk and Your Lips are Moving! Ahhgh why do they have to grow up so fast!
Artist's spirit
Thursday, 5 February 2015
Part-time job is a joke. Honest!
Well, a mum of two, who wants to work part-time in a marketing environment has two options as far as I know;
You would either do all the ad hoc and odd jobs, e.g. sourcing and purchasing lowest priced double sided tapes for your company's trade show attendance, feel like poo at the end of the day and say to your self "well that was a money well spent on a masters degree then! Well done girl!", or you would persuade yourself and your boss that you can do what other people can't do in 40 hours and manage two large accounts in 15 hours a week and after each working day driving back home, in your foggy brain taken over by migrane, try to think of ways of committing suicide in a way that won't look gross and that won't cause permanent damage in little girls' psychologies. Then of course you would come to the conclusion that there is no such thing and so you would just have to quit.
Yes, I decide to quit my job at least three times a week. But I haven't been able to action this yet. Because apparently deep inside, I am not a quitter.
You would either do all the ad hoc and odd jobs, e.g. sourcing and purchasing lowest priced double sided tapes for your company's trade show attendance, feel like poo at the end of the day and say to your self "well that was a money well spent on a masters degree then! Well done girl!", or you would persuade yourself and your boss that you can do what other people can't do in 40 hours and manage two large accounts in 15 hours a week and after each working day driving back home, in your foggy brain taken over by migrane, try to think of ways of committing suicide in a way that won't look gross and that won't cause permanent damage in little girls' psychologies. Then of course you would come to the conclusion that there is no such thing and so you would just have to quit.
Yes, I decide to quit my job at least three times a week. But I haven't been able to action this yet. Because apparently deep inside, I am not a quitter.
Thank you
Dear anonymous reader,
Thank you so much for your comment. I have only seen it now while I was trying to clear my inbox. It was a wake up call. So, thank you!
My health hasn't been great recently. But shouldn't be an excuse to neglect my beloved blog. I still love the thought of my daughters reading it when they are older.
I will try to put some more effort into it from now on. yes i will yes i will yes i will yes i will
Thank you so much for your comment. I have only seen it now while I was trying to clear my inbox. It was a wake up call. So, thank you!
My health hasn't been great recently. But shouldn't be an excuse to neglect my beloved blog. I still love the thought of my daughters reading it when they are older.
I will try to put some more effort into it from now on. yes i will yes i will yes i will yes i will
Wednesday, 7 January 2015
Sunday, 14 December 2014
Friday, 5 December 2014
Cherish life!
Sevdim, sevildim, gezdim, gordum, agladim, guldum, yedim, ictim, okudum, yazdim. Bana bunlari yapacak yuregi, kafayi, sagligi verdigin icin, hepsinden ote, beni bu iki muhtesem varligin annesi yaptigin icin... hayat sana cok tesekkur ederim.
Saturday, 22 November 2014
Tuesday, 18 November 2014
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